Statistics show that 2.3 million people get married in the United States every year. Half of these people are brides and they often talk about what they loved about their wedding day and share the things they would change as they give advice to their other friends and family. What information can you apply to your big day? Keep reading to learn a few of the things that brides wish they had done on their wedding day.
Wear Your Shoes Before the Big Day
Would you buy a pair of hiking boots and then go on a 20 mile hike as soon as you leave the store? The answer is no. The same concept is true with your wedding shoes. Wearing the shoes around your house a few times will help them be more comfortable. Another thing that brides with they had done before the big day is chosen more comfortable shoes to wear. To pull this off, you can have your stylish pair for photos and change into a comfortable pair once the photos are done.
Take More Time Off Work
If you are getting married on a Saturday, should you take Friday off? Wedding weekends can be full of last minute to-do’s and hectic scheduling. If you have the PTO for it, taking more time than you think you need can help ease your stress heading into the wedding weekend. It will depend on if you are taking a honeymoon right after if you are able to add on extra days to this time. Talking with your employer ahead of time and making the schedule work to fit your needs can be advantageous.
Hire a Coordinator
Even if you were your own wedding planner, you can still hire someone to oversee everything on the day of the wedding. This person will be in charge of making sure the events stay on schedule and everyone gets where they need to be on time, among all of the other logistical items that come with running a wedding. Hiring a wedding coordinator can help save you money over the cost of hiring a wedding planner because they are only working for a short shift on the day of the wedding and not overseeing the entire buildup to it.
Make Time to Eat
This piece of advice has grown in popularity over the years, now a major responsibility of the bridal party to ensure you eat before the day becomes hectic and no food is readily available. Depending on the setup for getting ready, there could be options to order food or someone could make food in advance to bring. Scheduling this out ahead of time will ensure that you start the day with a good meal.
Film Your Wedding
While the focus tends to fall on the stunning wedding photography, many brides wish they had also spent the money to hire a videographer to cover the wedding. Moments captured on video can be revisited over and over through an edited final video of the day. You can work with your wedding videographer to share the must-have moments and give them an idea of what you want the final product to look like. Watching this video can allow you to see the details of the day that you may have missed as they were taking place, as well as enjoying your favorite moments again.
Build in Time to Beautify
Getting ready always takes longer than you think. Your hair or makeup stylist could be running late, someone may not like their hairdo or the eyebrow shapes that they have to choose from. Scheduling out more time than you think you need for this can help the stylists and your bridal party not feel stressed about getting ready. This should be a relaxing time for you to share in conversation before the ceremony and reception begin. Asking the people that you hire for hair and makeup to arrive earlier than you need them can help combat the potential of arriving late.
Get Ready
Now that you have read about a few things that brides wish they did on their big day, you can get started today. Putting some of these things into action will help you be less stressed when the day arrives. It is important that you prioritize what is best for you and the groom, leaving other opinions second to what you two want for your special day. Check out our website for more helpful wedding articles like this one!