Welcoming your first child into your home is an exciting time in a parent’s life. However, as wonderful as it is, you now realize that you are the sole caretaker for this little bundle of joy. Unfortunately, there isn’t an instruction pamphlet that comes along with your infant, so we’ve listed a few tips below for providing care for your newborn.
First Things First
Take a deep breath and enjoy the moment, you’re a mom. How exciting. You have a little creature of your very own. Though you may not have a clue how to do things like proper burping, changing diapers, and bathing, you’ll pick it up in no time at all. In the meantime, enjoy the moment. Before you know it you’ll be researching for the best college.
The First Few Months
During the first few months, your baby will sleep often. They will only wake up for feeding and diaper changes. Now is the best time to deliver those warm embraces. Cuddles and snuggles will provide the human connection your little one needs to feel safe and secure. Have your spouse or mom help out with the cooking and household chores so that you can rest and be alert and relaxed to care for your newborn.
Feedings
Breastfeeding isn’t something that comes easy for many new moms. It may take a few tries to get you and the baby in a comfortable position. However, once you find it, you’ll enjoy each feeding as it allows you to truly connect with your baby. Your little one will need food every couple of hours and feeding should last about a half-hour, 15 minutes per breast. Make sure to burp them several times during feedings to release the air they take in.
If breastfeeding isn’t right for you and your baby, that’s perfectly fine too. Bottle-fed babies grow up just fine and you can still use feeding time to bond with your new baby human.
Diaper Changes
There are many diaper brands and it can be confusing to find the right one. Don’t stress. If one doesn’t work, move onto the next brand. Applying a diaper isn’t that hard. Simply lift your baby’s bottom and place the bottom on the back part, centering it as you go. Then, pull the front up and around the legs and fasten the tabs to each side. It’s also a good practice to have your supplies within reach, including baby wipes, ointment, and diapers for safety.
Handling and Transporting Your Baby
Make sure that you and anyone else that comes in contact with the baby wash their hands first. While they aren’t fragile, their immune system isn’t at full strength, putting them at a greater risk for infection. Always support their neck and head by cradling it and never shake a newborn for any reason as it can cause severe damage to the brain. Additionally, make sure that all buckles are secure and fastened properly when using a stroller, infant car seat, or carrier. Most come with a complete list of instructions.
Bathing Time
For new moms, bath time is scary. Just keep in mind that your newborn is not as fragile as you think. There are many inserts designed to fit inside tubs or sinks to prevent your little one from slipping and sliding. Since a bath can dry out their skin, bathing is something you should do initially only a few times a week. Limit the bath to approximately 10 minutes, enough time to wash their entire body. Use a body wash that’s gentle and tear-free. If your little one has trouble remaining asleep for more than a few hours nightly, you can try one with natural and calming scents that promote sleep.
A baby brings much joy to your home. Don’t fret over the little things. Your maternal instincts will kick in soon enough and you’ll become a pro at feeding, diaper changes, and caring for your newborn. Before long your little one will be saying their first words, walking, and enjoying their first haircut.