If you’re one of the bridesmaids at your best friend’s wedding, always remember that with power comes great responsibility.

It’s an honor and fun, but it can also be a lot of hard work with many things going on simultaneously. As the bridesmaid, you have certain tasks, too, which can get overwhelming.

While you don’t always have to do all of it, we know a few areas the bride would appreciate your assistance.

Here’s our checklist of your duties for the big day and a chance for you to secure the status of the best bridesmaid ever!

Let’s get into it.

Before The Big Day

Emotional Support

The stress that comes with wedding planning is unfathomable, so be the bride’s support system through this process. Let her vent it out, give her honest opinions, and most importantly, be available to her as much as you can.

Pre-Wedding Events

The bridal shower, rehearsal dinner, and bachelorette party are among the most awaited events of a wedding, and this is where the maid of honor mainly takes the lead. However, bridesmaids can also lend a helping hand by chipping in and helping out. Whether it’s organizing games, decorating, or keeping track of gifts, there’s always plenty to do, and teamwork ensures everything runs smoothly. Maid of honor duties often include coordinating these events and managing any last-minute hiccups that may arise. By working together, the bridal party can make the bride’s pre-wedding celebrations unforgettable.

Assistance With The Attire

While some brides know what they want for their wedding dress, veil, bouquet, etc., others will need help because of the sheer amount of choice at the bridal store. So, if the bride asks you for help, do not hesitate to chime in on ideas.

Keey Drama At Bay

Weddings are where different people from various backgrounds come together, and it’s possible that conversations get misunderstood and points of view may clash. So, don’t leave it to the bride to be the middleman; take charge, be nice and kind, and set an ambient tone for everyone.

A Thoughtful Gift

Great gifts also come with high price tags; you won’t want to gift the bride something cheap. Get the other bridesmaids on board and pool your resources to get the couple something they’ll truly cherish.

On The Big Day

Getting Ready

As a bridesmaid, you’ll most likely be getting ready with the rest of the crew while assisting the bride in getting ready. Plan the morning early so you get your hair and makeup done, have time to eat, get dressed, and take pre-wedding photos.

Get In Touch With The Planner

Different types of venues have their own set of responsibilities attached to them. Cooperate with the planner, get to know the schedule, and assist wherever you can for a smooth sailing celebration.

Stay Aware Of Wedding Photos

Of course, you’ll be on your toes all day, but don’t miss any wedding photos. Being part of group portraits and whenever the photographer needs you is also a significant part of a bridesmaid’s duties.

Stick Around The Bride

Whether it’s to help calm the bride’s wedding jitters or provide refreshments because she barely has the time to eat, you must stick around the bride to make sure she’s comfortable. Bathroom breaks also need a partner, considering the dress can be challenging. The bride might even ask you to be their wedding ring bearer, which means your presence will be of utmost importance.

Keep The Energy High

Although you have a long list of tasks, don’t forget to be part of the celebrations. Let loose, participate, dance, and have fun. Even if there’s an after-party, don’t be a party pooper; lift your spirits and keep the party going.

After The Big Day

Plan The Farewell

It may be the after-party or a post-wedding brunch the following day, but you’re expected to help plan and participate in the great “send-off.” So, get some rest, wake up early, check on the newlyweds to make sure they’re ready, and enjoy the day before the couple says their goodbyes for the honeymoon.

Organize Leftovers

Undoubtedly, some items will be unused, so organize leftovers to take back to the hotel or venue and return any wedding rentals. Do a last-minute check of the space and pick up anything you think the couple might’ve missed or left behind.

Final Miscellaneous Tasks

You may have to help remove the decorations and ensure they’re packed for transport. Similarly, you’ll have to collect items like wedding gifts, photos, guestbooks, etc, for safekeeping or at least until you can give them to the couple. If there are any outstanding payments or other bills, don’t wait too long after the wedding to clear those out.

 

To Conclude

That may seem like a long list of duties, but it’ll be worth every minute once you see the smile on the bride’s face. Plus, there’s no greater privilege than to be chosen as a bridesmaid; it shows the bride trusts and appreciates you.

 

We hope our tips help you navigate this exciting yet overwhelming opportunity so you can make the most of it!