To say that the Japanese are a whole new world is an understatement. Their culture and habits are almost always the exact opposite of western life. However, as weird as they seem, we are all fascinated by them, and this is undeniable. From their entertaining anime to their unique cuisine and language, we all wish to know or even date the Japanese. However, being from a different culture dating them is no easy task, and this guide helps you in your quest. 

How and where to meet them?

One of the best ways to meet Japanese men and women is during festivals, exhibitions, and events. However, you will find several language exchanges and international parties organized for foreigners and natives to mingles. This is where you can meet most Japanese girls and go on dates while also learning their language.

Women can meet Japanese gentlemen through websites like Hello Sensei that help you meet natives and teach them English. Yet another way to meet men and women in Japan is via dating sites.

Not to mention that with the rise in popularity of dating apps, singles now have tons of options to find other like-minded individuals for themselves. For instance, eharmony has become increasingly popular and this comes as no surprise considering its wide variety of appealing features.

What can you expect?

When dating someone from a different culture, you can expect a lot of mishaps and lost in translation moments. Here is what you can expect when you date Japanese girls and boys:

• At first, you may not know when no means no, and yes means no. Therefore, be ready to be confused
• Japanese women want to look their best for dates so do expect last-minute cancellations on a rainy day or when they feel tired
• Sex is almost secondary to women in Japan. Being her boyfriend or dating her does not mean she will do it with you.
• Women get easily offended in Japan. Therefore, keep your jokes and wordplay at a distance.
• Women (and sometimes men) expect a date to go all way into a lifelong commitment
• Japanese are shy people, especially women. Therefore, men would need to make the first move
• Both men and women in Japan would not mind paying their share. However, men mostly prefer paying full over half
• Beware of becoming a token girlfriend or boyfriend

The dos and don’ts

Do:

• Dress up to impress
• Have a plan for the date
• Be polite to your date
• Offer to pay if you asked them out

Don’t:

• Choose a crowded place like a theme park for the first date
• Dominate the conversation by talking about yourself
• Talk about your ex
• Show PDA on the first date (or any other time, Japanese women are too shy)

Conclusion

Dating someone from a diverse culture like Japanese can be nerve-wracking and complicated. However, with a little effort into understanding and accepting them, the path of dating will not be hard. When you have crossed the initial hiccups, you will have a partner that is devoted and loyal.