A honeymoon is a once in a lifetime trip. While it is easy to get caught up in the planning and execution of the actual wedding, you need to also devote time to decide what will happen once you say your vows and take off on your first trip together as a married couple. Here are four proven ways to prepare for your honeymoon so that you have a fantastic time.

Choosing Your Destination: An essential consideration to make when planning your honeymoon is where you want to go. Before you land on an exotic spot, be sure to consider how you want to spend your days. If you know that you are going to be tired after the wedding, you may want to select a honeymoon destination involving more rest and relaxation. If you are an active couple with a lot of energy, you will most likely appreciate a destination that delivers an abundance of activities for you to enjoy together. The time of the year will also play a part in your trip destination. It would be best if you thought through all of these factors before selecting your destination.

What to Pack: Your destination of choice will largely dictate what you need to bring along for your adventure. If you are traveling to a tropical destination, you will want to bring at least two swimming suits and the appropriate footwear. For the ultimate in casual comfort, be sure to pack a pair of high waisted jeggings or denim. It is also a good idea to bring at least one formal outfit in case you decide to do a special dinner or night out on the town. If you plan on an active honeymoon, you will need to bring comfortable sneakers and the appropriate activewear.

Selecting a Departure Date and Time: It used to be a tradition for the new couple to head off on their honeymoon as soon as the reception was over. As time has evolved, it has become more common for the bride and the groom to at least wait until the next day. Some couples even choose to wait until a day or two after the wedding festivities have concluded. It’s a nice idea to plan a departure brunch with your wedding party and close family the day after the wedding. You will also feel more rested and ready for the honeymoon if you give yourself a day or two to catch up on sleep and recover from all of the festivities.

Set Your Expectations: A honeymoon comes with a high amount of expectations. Before taking off on this trip, it’s important that you and your new spouse set your expectations for what lies ahead. Is the primary purpose of this trip to relax and spend time getting intimate? Or do you both want to take advantage of all of the opportunities that the destination provides its visitors? Setting the expectations before you depart will ensure that there are no disappointments when you arrive for your vacation.

A little preparation and planning can go a long way in ensuring that you enjoy the honeymoon of your dreams. What better way to start this new season in life than with a special trip to celebrate your marriage?