In the sixties and seventies, living together prior to marriage was unthinkable. However, in the 21st Century, it’s a growing trend. Many couples are opting to move in together and tie the knot years later. While it does allow couples to find out ahead of time if they are compatible, it can take away from the excitement of your special day. Below are a few tips to make your wedding day memorable.

Element of Surprise

A girl’s wedding dress is something that remains in hiding until the walk down the aisle. At this moment, the groom sees his bride-to-be for the first time and is in awe of her beauty. This is one tradition that can remain. Pick out your wedding dress and keep it from view at a parent’s or friend’s home until the morning of. 

Separate Prior to the Wedding

Dressing and fixing your face, hair, and nails apart will allow you to see your partner for the first time as a bride or groom. The visual brings on the excitement that would otherwise not exist. Make an appointment at a hair salon and try out new hairstyles until you find the one that appeals the most. For example, if you live in Texas and you are really interested in hair braiding, Houston stylists are plentiful, so could certainly find one who could try a number of different braids to find one you’re in love with. 

Unexpected Guests

Chances are your spouse has a distant family member or friend that remains special. Send an invitation privately. When it’s time to gather for the wedding dinner, they’ll see that person present and instantly make the day stand out.

Stay on Budget

Many couples who live together pay for their own wedding. Having an elaborate setup can cost you dearly for the next few years. Instead, make an effort to cut costs when possible without sacrifice. Find a venue at least six months in advance and research things like the caterer, florist, and photographer to find ones within your price range. Creating insurmountable debt isn’t going to make your wedding day memorable in the right way.

Finding the Special Song

You shared quality time together for several years. Now comes the time when you select the song that plays for the first dance. This is where couples living together have a leg up. Pick a couple of songs and really listen to the words. The one that best matches your relationship is the one to select. 

Cater to Each Other

One advantage you have as a couple already sharing life is knowledge. Unlike true newlyweds, you know what each other likes. You know their favorite color, and taste in food and music. Marriage is all about compromise. Let your wedding day stand out as the day you both compromised to make it special. 

Planning the Honeymoon

As stated above, catering to each other is something that makes a marriage successful. To make the honeymoon memorable, select a place brand new. Discovering a country or exotic island for the first time together will add excitement. To further enhance the time together, buy new lingerie and keep it concealed until the wedding night for the ultimate reveal. 

Writing the Nuptials

One way to surprise your spouse on the wedding day is with thoughtful nuptials. You have many good times and a bond that’s strong. Present that lovingly in your words. Think about what makes the other person so special and how your heart races when they are near.  Share the little moments that have brought you closer and the dreams you hold for the future together. These heartfelt expressions can deeply touch your partner and create a memory they’ll cherish forever. And while planning such moments, it’s also worth reflecting on the important milestones in your journey, like the things women should do before marriage to prepare themselves for this incredible chapter of their lives.

A wedding is something that only occurs once in your lifetime. Even though you already share a home together, you can make the wedding day and honeymoon exciting and memorable. Find a venue, florist, and photographer that you both agree on. Think of each other’s likes and create an element of surprise. In the end, you’ll look back on your wedding day fondly.