Weddings take many shapes and forms. Sometimes they are very formal events, sometimes more rustic, and sometimes they are themed. Sometimes weddings are small affairs with the couple, a few witnesses, and a justice of the peace while other times weddings are big affairs that involve hundreds. Some of the best weddings and wedding experiences incorporate the passions and loves of the two people getting married. Weddings should be as unique as you are and should be something you look back fondly at for years to come.

Before planning a wedding it is worthwhile to sit down and take an extended period of time to think through what you and your partner might really want for a wedding. This means thinking about the proposal, the wedding, and the honeymoon. It can be easy to get lost in the busyness of wedding planning, and look back and find you ended up on autopilot or that what you ended up with is more representative of those around you and their expectation than what you really wanted. 

Proposals:

There is a classic image of someone getting down on one knee and proposing to the claps and cheers of their family and friends. While this is one way to propose there are other more creative ways that are available to you. First you should consider what type of ring you are going to get, this could include moissanite engagement rings, a formal ring you made in an arts studio, or something that is completely homemade that you know your partner will love. Second, you should pick an interesting time and place to propose which can involve anything from a romantic picnic in the park, to a convention, to a sports event, to creating and screening a homemade film. With a great ring and an amazing location you have your proposal tied with a bow.

The Wedding Itself:

The best weddings are those which represent the passions of the individuals who are getting married. Remember a wedding is for you and your partner so do whatever makes you happy and do not worry what others might think. If you pick a theme, go all out. For example if you and your partner are into Doctor Who you might have a TARDIS cake, if you are into superheroes you might serve a star-lord cocktail inspired by guardians of the galaxy, or if you love Star Wars you might walk down the aisle to the imperial march. When it comes to all the cool ways you can incorporate fun into your wedding it really comes down to how big you can dream. 

Remember when it comes to weddings you are going to remember the look on your partner’s face and the overall experience, you are not going to remember what it cost or if it was perfect. Instead of trying for some perfect dream wedding consider trying for a fun wedding where everyone will feel relaxed and comfortable. This is a day you want to always remember for good reasons not because it felt too fussy or felt like a wedding that came off the rack. Weddings are a great way to incorporate your creativity and start your relationship on a good foot. What better way to do so than to create a fun experience?

The Honeymoon:

Honeymoon’s can take you and your spouse almost anywhere you can dream. You might consider a honeymoon where you see wildlife you would not otherwise see such as going on an elephant back safari in Zambia. You might take a trip that follows an historical route such as the orient express. You might even choose one of a number of fandom based honeymoons where you see where your favorite shows were filmed or the sights that inspired your favorite author to write their book. Just like every other part of a fun wedding with a little imagination you can create an experience that you and your partner will be talking about for the rest of your lives. Finally it is good to remember that honeymoons and second honeymoons can occur at any time. Sometimes in order to have the time and resources for the perfect honeymoon you are going to have to put it on hold for a defined period of time.