The average woman has around six best friends over their lifetime, says research conducted by The Book of Everyone – a small number that indicates how much we should value the special women and men who are there for us every step of the way. If your BFF is about to tie the knot, then without a doubt you have dreamed up many ideas to show what they mean to you. One of these may involve throwing them a hen night to remember. What considerations should you keep in mind to ensure the night is one that your friend treasures for a lifetime.

Personalizing the Party

Some of the hottest trends in hen parties include afternoon teas in upscale tearooms (with all the trimmings and traditional treats), spa days, and glamping (i.e. luxury camping). The key to planning a perfect event, however, is to forget about trends and focus on your friend’s idea of the perfect day. If they love nothing more than an outdoor adventure, for instance, why not take everyone on a skydiving escapade or a canyoning adventure? If they are party queens at heart, how does a quick getaway to a party destination like Las Vegas or London sound? Your friend’s expressed wishes, personal experiences, and unspoken desires should form the basis of any plan you select.

Creating the Perfect Hen Party Bag

One recent trend in hen parties involves giving guests party memorabilia to wear out at night. The bags can contain a blend of consumable items (think individual alcohol bottles), safety information (important telephone numbers, itineraries if relevant, and maps), games, snacks, and of course, something to remember the bride by. The latter can be something naughty (think an adult toy) or nice (like a crystal figurine or jewelry item symbolizing something personal about your friend). A hen party bag can also contain fun wearables that will help your group stand out from the crowd so your friend gets all the attention she deserves on her special night. These thoughtful bags not only add a personal touch to the festivities but can also help streamline the planning process by keeping essentials in one place. For those looking to create memorable experiences without breaking the bank, saving money on bachelorette parties can involve DIYing these bags or sourcing affordable yet meaningful items. With a little creativity, you can celebrate your bride-to-be in style while staying within budget.

Sharing the Love

A hen night is usually associated with a wild party atmosphere but it is important to make it meaningful (even for just a few minutes of this special evening). If you will be enjoying dinner, pause for a while to present a video compilation of some of your friend’s best moments. Aim to include imagery of her and her fiancée but also include beautiful shots of her with you and other friends. After all, this night is a celebration of friendship above all things. Include her favorite music in the background, have a live singer dedicate a song to her, and of course, don’t forget to give a special speech about what your friend has meant (and will continue to mean) to you. You could also incorporate a fun activity where everyone shares their favorite memory with the bride-to-be, creating a heartfelt moment of connection and love. These small but meaningful gestures don’t just make the hen night special; they set the tone for making the wedding night memorable by reminding everyone of the deep bonds shared. Ultimately, it’s the thoughtfulness and personal touches that will leave a lasting impression on your dear friend as she embarks on this new chapter of her life.

Throwing the perfect hen night is no easy feat since it involves serious thinking about what would really make your friend happy. From skydiving to a relaxing spa day, there is a myriad of possibilities and only you and your group will know enough about your friend to pick the right activity. Include a blend of sugar and spice and ensure that at the end of the night, everyone is thanked for sharing this special moment with you and your BFF.