When you’re sure your partner is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, there’s only one thing left to do. If you’re thinking that you need to get down on your knee and give them a ring, you’re absolutely right. It’s one of the most romantic moments that is the first step for starting your lives together as a little family, so you need to pop the question in the most amazing way you can think of. Because it’s a huge deal, most people get super nervous about what to say and how to say it. There’s also this little fear that they might say no, which adds up to the pressure of the process.

Don’t worry though, because we got you. These 4 simple tips that you’re about to read will help you nail the proposal for a beautiful start to a wonderful life with the person you fell in love with. Just follow them and this day will be one of the best days for the both of you.

1. Confidence Is the Key

Confidence is one of the most attractive qualities anyone can have, so the more confident you are the harder they’ll fall for you. When it comes to popping the question, there are several things to be confident about. First of all, you must be sure that you’re both ready for this step. Sometimes couples may be deeply in love with one another, but either of them is not ready for marriage. When you’re ready for this step and want to go through with it, you must be absolutely sure they are too. If you propose when either of you isn’t ready, things will become awkward between you two, even if they ask you to wait a bit. 

Your attitude when asking her the question makes a huge difference. Being absolutely sure of yourself and of how strong the bond between you two makes the proposal all the more powerful and romantic.

2. Pick the Perfect Ring

It’s not about the biggest diamond or the most opulent band, but the ring design that you know they’ll love. To be able to find the one that your partner will absolutely love, you need to know their character well enough. There are a number of factors that can help you choose the best design. These factors include how long or short their fingers are, the size of their hands, the way they dress, and the style of jewelry and accessories that they prefer. You can try to picture the ring on their hand to make your final decision. Another thing you need to look for in a ring is its quality. Buying your fiance-to-be a top classic quality ring will make the proposal all the more romantic, as well as make them feel special and valued by you. A perfect ring is the one that looks gorgeous, matches their character and style, and is one that your partner can proudly show to their friends and family telling them they have the best fiance ever.

3. Make It A Special Day

Don’t propose on a regular date where you’re out for a casual lunch and then pop the question. It needs to be a memorable place that symbolizes and represents a special moment or memory from your time together. Make it a point to go somewhere they’ve always wanted to go, or to a place that is extra special for the both of you. Knowing your partner, you can decide if you want to have friends and family there when you pop the question or if it’s better to do it with just the two of you.

4. Speak From the Heart

The moment you pop the question, tell your other half why you love them and why you’re sure that they’re one that you want to spend your life with. Don’t say general reasons like you’re sweet, understanding, or anything like that. Tell them the things that they do that you absolutely adore. Talk about specific moments, whether romantic or not, and express what they mean to you and how special they are. Try to make them see themselves the way you see them; the most beautiful, amazing human on the planet. Share your vision for the future together, touching on the ups and downs, including aging and what to expect as time goes on. Reassure them that no matter what changes life may bring, your love and commitment will remain constant. Let them know that you’re ready to face every challenge and cherish every moment by their side, growing together through all stages of life.

Every couple has their own style of romance that is different from anyone else and is completely and uniquely theirs. There is no universal definition of what romantic is, it’s what makes your heartbeat for each other that makes something romantic. You don’t have to take your love to the fanciest restaurant and drop the ring in their glass for a special proposal. You can make a gesture that only the two of you understand and find romantic, and that’s how to make it perfect. Now go on and ask the love of your life to marry you and make you the happiest person alive.